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65: Feeling Stuck? When Hard Work isn’t Working for Physician Moms

Cindy Van Praag, MD Episode 65

Find the full transcript and more resources for physician moms at inspiredmommds.com/65.

Productivity is a liar.
It pats you on the back for being busy while silently draining your peace.

Physician moms have mastered the art of doing.
You schedule, solve, serve, repeat.

But here’s the uncomfortable truth:
Sometimes, doing more is how we avoid facing what’s not working.

In this episode, I confess what finally broke my cycle of late-night thinking, second-guessing, and spinning my wheels.

I did the thing I rarely let myself do.
I asked for help.

And here’s what I’ve come to believe: asking for help as a physician mom isn’t weakness, it’s wisdom. It’s strategy. 

So, if you’ve been sprinting toward progress but feeling more stuck than ever, stay with me. This episode might just be the mirror you need.

Because the goal isn’t to do more.
It’s to move forward.

Bonus Reflection Prompts 

What’s something you keep trying to fix alone… that might be ready for fresh perspective or partnership?

Where do you find yourself spending the most energy with the least return, and what might asking for help look like there?

What would it mean to believe that support doesn’t make you less capable, but more strategic?

If you gave yourself full permission to stop spinning your wheels this week, what’s the first move you’d make?

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I help physician moms take back control and prioritize what matters most so they can thrive in private practice and at home.